My Thai Weekend

The BF and I took a little weekend trip to Thailand last weekend. We went to Patong Beach, on the west coast of southern Thailand, on the island of Phuket. It was lovely and beachy.

The busy street adjacent to the beach. See the shops
selling all kinds of things.

Beautiful soft white sand and warm water. The beach is on a little cove, so the water was shallow, with gentle waves. Very good for just splashing around; not so much for bodysurfing. Also, since the island is on the west coast of Thailand, the cove we were swimming in is actually part of the Indian Ocean. I'd never been in the Indian Ocean before! 

They have McDonald's in Phuket.
We didn't eat there. 

The main street by the beach was busy and kinda touristy, with restaurants (including McDonalds and Starbucks) and shops selling everything from knock-off purses, to flip flops, sarongs, luggage, t-shirts, aloe vera and miniature sculptures. I bought a tiny silver elephant to go with my tiny silver alpaca from Peru and a tiny silver water buffalo I bought in Cambodia. (Apparently I now collect tiny silver animals from foreign countries.) I also bought some knock-off purses, flip flops and t-shirts; The BF bought a backpack and almost bought some luggage. So, yeah.

The beach beds and a merchant offering robes
or something. 

On the beach itself, there were people walking up and down the beach selling all kinds of things: some merchants had coolers of water, beer and soda; some sold silk robes, some sold sarongs and dresses, some sold sunscreen or aloe (cut fresh from the plant, not the kind in a bottle). They even had people selling sunglasses and bikinis. For $3 you could rent a "beach bed" (a lounge chair with a cushion on it) and a beach umbrella. And the guy who rented us the chairs came by every hour or so to brush the sand off our chairs and adjust our umbrella. 

It kinda reminded me of the busy part of Myrtle Beach, by the boardwalk, for all the weird touristy shops and the concentration of rednecks. There were no confederate flag bikinis, but plenty of mullets and dudes in Harley Davidson or Jack Daniels tank tops. Only instead of bad Southern accents, they had Australian accents. We kinda came to the conclusion that Thailand (or at least Phuket) is like Australia's Mexico: cheap flight to an exotic and warm place, with cheap booze, cheap pills and cheap thrills. And lots of things that are illegal back home.

The busy streets at night.
More shops selling more things
and people advertising all
kinds of entertainment.

Very colorful side street lined
with bars and clubs.

Speaking of cheap thrills....it seemed like there was plenty of opportunity for that too. While wandering through town after dinner one night, we were presented with fliers advertising all kinds of adult entertainment. The bars and clubs along the main drag had women in costumes dancing on stages (and in cages) within plain view of the street. We opted not to partake of any of that nonsense, but saw enough to confirm that the things you hear about Thailand might be true.

By the pool at the hotel. It was
 multiple levels, very nice. Infinity
edges from one level to the next. Kids mostly stayed in the lower
level, adults in the upper level. 

It rained one afternoon on the beach.
So we scampered across the street
to the  shelter of a Mexican
 restaurant for nachos and
margaritas. This was the
view of the rain
from our dry seats.

After a lovely weekend of beach time, sun, sand, swimming and delicious food (including authentic, REAL pad thai), we headed back to Singapore. It's only about a 2-hour flight, so it made for a totally doable weekend getaway. I'd like to go back to Thailand for another weekend and maybe check out Bangkok. Or Krabi....I hear good things about its beaches.....
  

We ate authentic Thai food at a lovely outdoor restaurant
that had a live band performing. Any band that can
pull off better-than-decent renditions of both Adele AND
Pink Floyd, is a winner in my book.

Control-gaining reactivities

In health class in high school you probably learned about eating disorders. Anorexia, bulimia, compulsive over"eating....you know. You probably also learned that the root cause of many eating disorders is a desire for control. That's why many teenage girls suffer from eating disorders: they are seeking some control in their lives and not finding it in their home life or school life.

As we grow up and get more in touch with our emotions, we exert our need for control in other ways. And many of us are able to actually articulate that this is what we're doing, when we go shopping, paint things or go for a long drive. 

I've got a lot of change going on in my life right now. The BF is moving to Asia, things are weird at work (the ever-crazy world of client services) and I'm starting a grad school program in a few months. So in reaction to all of this change, I've been seeking some coping mechanisms - and yes, seeking some control.

After three trips to McDonald's, a visit to Wendy's, a delivery order to the Domino's that is LITERALLY 1.5 blocks from my house and a dinner consisting SOLELY of wine and ice cream (no real food, just wine and ice cream. I paired a nice pinot grigio with some QFC-brand chocolate chip cookie dough. It was nice.) I realized my emotional eating bender needed to stop. Like whoa.

Therefore, I have been seeking another outlet for my control-regaining needs. Like rearranging furniture. So far I have moved everything in my living room....then moved most of it back. I also have replaced some of my furniture with things I snagged from the BF, seeing as how he lives in another continent now. Yesterday was the final (for now) movement process. I'm pretty pleased with how things have landed. The couch returned to its original position - which is good because it means I dont have to move the pictures hanging above it. The loveseat, tv and buffet table all moved; I got a new coffee table, tv stand and end tables and replaced the old items. So far, I'm liking it. The room feels more open and homey at the same time. I'm thinking I now need to invite people over to eat and play cards or something. We'll see if I get around to that this week.......